Talk about the present, not just the past
Past relationships may be an important part of your story, but your profile does not need to become a detailed report on them. Write about what you enjoy now, the pace that suits you and what you hope to find. Choose recent photographs. Habits and free time are useful first-conversation topics; sensitive details can wait until there is more trust.
- Add a photograph that makes you easy to recognise today.
- Name two activities from your current life.
- Discuss separately how quickly you feel comfortable becoming closer.
A place to start
Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.
Lately I've got into photography and short trips. Have you discovered a new activity recently?
I like each person having some space of their own. How do you feel about separate hobbies in a relationship?
Prepare your own version
Talk about the present, not just the past: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.
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What else is useful to know
Do I need to share my past in detail straight away?
It is enough to share what affects your present expectations and agreements. You can discuss your personal history gradually and only in as much detail as feels comfortable.
What is available in GuessWish?
GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.
Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?
No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.
