Choose a format that suits your life
Do not try to guess the ‘right’ image to present at this age. Describe specific activities: walks, gardening, music, books or trips. Clarify whether you hope to live together eventually or are currently looking for regular dates. Neither option is inherently better; mutual understanding is what matters. Early on, do not share money or personal documents.
- State your goal and how often you would like to meet.
- Show everyday interests in recent photographs.
- Choose a public place for your first meeting.
A place to start
Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.
I like starting a day off with a walk and a good breakfast. What does an enjoyable free day look like for you?
I'd like a close connection without rushing decisions about living together. Would that pace suit you?
Prepare your own version
Choose a format that suits your life: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.
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What else is useful to know
Can I look for companionship without planning to marry?
Yes. Friendship, regular dates and a relationship while living separately can all be considered choices. What matters is describing your expectations and learning the other person's position.
What is available in GuessWish?
GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.
Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?
No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.
