Examine requests, not promises
A photograph, a detailed profile or a pleasant conversation does not guarantee that someone is trustworthy. Pressure, requests for urgent money transfers and attempts to get sign-in codes deserve caution. Discuss the meeting time and place while keeping the ability to leave independently. If an interaction becomes unpleasant, end it; you do not have to justify that decision to a stranger. In immediate danger, contact local emergency services.
- Keep payment details, documents and codes out of the conversation.
- Choose a busy place and your own way home.
- Stop the conversation if your boundaries are ignored.
A place to start
Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.
I prefer a first meeting in a public place, and I'll make my own way there.
I don't send codes or documents. I won't continue discussing that request.
Prepare your own version
Examine requests, not promises: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.
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What else is useful to know
Does a video call fully verify someone's identity?
No. A call can help you get acquainted, but it does not prove every detail or make requests for money safe.
What is available in GuessWish?
GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.
Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?
No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.
