GuessWish
Goals and formats · 18+

Online dating

Meeting someone online starts with a profile and a short conversation. Give the other person a reason to reply, then gradually explore whether your interest is mutual.

Terms and prices for individual actions are available in the service.

Reading a message at a desk at home
These illustrations were created with AI. They are not photographs of members.
An idea for getting acquainted

Move from a profile to a conversation

A photograph catches attention, but profile content helps you choose a topic. Find one detail: an activity, an image, a city or a short story. Write two or three sentences and one question. If the conversation goes well, suggest a suitable next step: a little more chatting, a short call or meeting in a public place. Avoid sending the same long message to everyone.

  1. Add a recent photo and a clear description of yourself.
  2. Refer to a specific detail in your first message.
  3. Agree on a next step once there is mutual interest.
In your own words

A place to start

Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.

You mention city walks in your interests. Is there a place you enjoy returning to even without a particular reason?

I liked the way you described your weekends. Do you usually plan them in advance or decide in the morning?

Talking with headphones on at a laptop
Talking with headphones on at a laptop. Image created with AI.
One small next step

Prepare your own version

Move from a profile to a conversation: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.

Your text stays in this tab and is not sent to the server. It disappears when you close the page; save a file if you want to keep it.

What else is useful to know

Can I suggest meeting straight away?

You can suggest it, but you cannot assume agreement. If the other person would prefer to chat or call first, discuss a comfortable option and do not rush them.

What is available in GuessWish?

GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.

Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?

No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.