GuessWish
Goals and formats · 18+

Dating through shared interests

Start getting acquainted with something you already enjoy: books, walks, sport or travel. A shared topic helps you write a meaningful first message.

Terms and prices for individual actions are available in the service.

Two people looking at a travel book in a café
These illustrations were created with AI. They are not photographs of members.
An idea for getting acquainted

How to turn an interest into a conversation

The word ‘travel’ might mean camping with a tent, a quiet seaside holiday or a weekend in a nearby town. Expand on one specific detail instead of listing lots of hobbies. In GuessWish, visual images provide a reason to compare wishes; ask the other person what their chosen picture means to them. One shared interest does not yet tell you about someone's character or expectations.

  1. Choose two activities you actually do.
  2. Share a small story about one of them.
  3. Ask an open question and share your own answer.
In your own words

A place to start

Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.

You have mountains among your images. Do you prefer short walks with a beautiful view or hikes that last several days?

I like visiting bookshops without a shopping list. What book have you stumbled across recently?

Conversation partners choosing landscape cards at a table
Conversation partners choosing landscape cards at a table. Image created with AI.
One small next step

Prepare your own version

How to turn an interest into a conversation: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.

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What else is useful to know

Do all our hobbies need to match?

No. One topic you both enjoy discussing is enough to start. Different interests can also give you something to talk about when you treat them with respect.

What is available in GuessWish?

GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.

Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?

No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.