From an introduction to regular contact
Clear reasons to see each other can help friendships grow: a book swap, a weekend walk, a board game or working out together. For a first meeting, choose a public place and an activity you can end without awkwardness. Do not demand instant closeness or constant availability. State explicitly in your profile that you are looking for friendship so you do not create hidden romantic expectations.
- Describe a specific activity you would enjoy doing together.
- Suggest a short first meeting that is easy to leave.
- Afterwards, ask whether you both want to do it again.
A place to start
Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.
I'm looking for company for walks and conversations about books. Would you like to take a walk at the weekend and swap recommendations?
I'd like to bring together a small group of adults for board games. Which games do you enjoy that don't take ages to learn?
Prepare your own version
From an introduction to regular contact: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.
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What else is useful to know
How can we avoid different expectations?
Say you are looking for friendship before the first meeting. Do not use flirting to hold someone's attention if a romantic connection is not right for you.
What is available in GuessWish?
GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.
Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?
No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.
