A small meeting instead of an elaborate programme
There is no need to plan several places and a long evening before you know whether you feel comfortable talking in person. A short coffee or a walk leaves you freedom. Confirm the details beforehand and plan an independent way home. During the conversation, alternate questions with stories of your own. Afterwards, you can say directly whether you want to meet again, without an obligation to decide immediately.
- Agree on the place, time and approximate duration.
- Choose a public setting that is accessible to both of you.
- Do not promise another meeting merely to be polite.
A place to start
Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.
I suggest a short coffee on Saturday afternoon. If we both feel like it, we can decide afterwards whether to continue with a walk.
Thank you for meeting; I enjoyed talking. I'd like a little time to think about how I feel, and then I'll write.
Prepare your own version
A small meeting instead of an elaborate programme: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.
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What else is useful to know
Does a first date need to be unusual?
Not necessarily. A convenient setting and space to talk calmly matter more than a complicated programme. You can think of an interesting next activity once you know each other better.
What is available in GuessWish?
GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.
Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?
No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.
