Start with ordinary curiosity about a person
Do not choose a topic just because it is supposedly popular with all men. If you know nothing about football or technology, you do not need to pretend otherwise. You can take an honest interest in the other person's hobby or suggest a topic you enjoy. What matters more is listening to the answer and noticing whether your side of the conversation receives attention too.
- Choose a real detail instead of a gender stereotype.
- Ask a question that allows a personal answer.
- Describe your own connection to the topic.
A place to start
Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.
You wrote about long walks with music. Do you usually take a familiar route or explore a new neighbourhood?
I'm just starting to learn about photography. What helped you notice interesting shots around you?
Prepare your own version
Start with ordinary curiosity about a person: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.
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What else is useful to know
What if I know nothing about his hobby?
You can say that directly and ask what he enjoys about it. You do not need to act like an expert; curiosity is enough when the topic interests both of you.
What is available in GuessWish?
GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.
Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?
No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.
