The first three messages
Ask one question in the first message. In the second, respond to the answer and share something about yourself. In the third, you can explore an interesting detail instead of automatically changing the subject. This sequence is a guide, not a mandatory script. If the conversation takes another direction, follow it. Do not turn every answer into the next item on a questionnaire.
- Start with a specific observation.
- Respond meaningfully to what the person shared.
- Add a story of your own of a similar length.
A place to start
Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.
There's a lot of greenery in your profile. Do you prefer trips into nature or finding beautiful places in the city itself?
I can see why you enjoyed that route. Recently I also went for a walk without a plan and found a little coffee shop.
Prepare your own version
The first three messages: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.
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What else is useful to know
How do I avoid turning a chat into an interrogation?
After asking a question, do not rush to the next one. Respond to the answer, share your experience and leave room for the person to ask about you.
What is available in GuessWish?
GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.
Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?
No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.
