GuessWish
Age and circumstances · 18+

Long-distance dating

Long-distance dating involves discussing time for conversations, expectations and realistic opportunities to meet. Start with a comfortable rhythm without promising an immediate move.

Terms and prices for individual actions are available in the service.

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An idea for getting acquainted

A plan that works for both of you

Clarify time zones and hours when messages will not interrupt work or rest. Distinguish a wish to meet from a confirmed plan. When discussing a trip, each person should retain independence over payment, documents and accommodation. Do not send money to a new acquaintance for a promised meeting. Periodically check whether the current format works for you, rather than focusing only on the idea of a future relationship.

  1. Agree on convenient times to communicate.
  2. Discuss expectations about getting acquainted and meeting.
  3. Plan trips without surrendering control of money or documents.
In your own words

A place to start

Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.

We're in different time zones. When would a relaxed conversation work for you without interrupting your rest?

I'm interested in getting to know you further. Let's discuss separately what way and frequency of communicating would suit us both.

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One small next step

Prepare your own version

A plan that works for both of you: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.

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What else is useful to know

Do we need to agree on relocating straight away?

No. Big decisions are not required when you first get acquainted. Start by understanding whether your expectations align and whether the current conversation feels comfortable.

What is available in GuessWish?

GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.

Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?

No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.