Move from a goal to specific expectations
As trust grows, discuss attitudes towards sharing a home, children, where to live and how to divide your time. You do not need to resolve these subjects in the first message. First, find out whether you can speak openly and respect differences. Do not treat a profile goal as a promise to marry a particular person. Decisions about the future develop through mutual choice and experience together.
- Briefly mention your hope for family life in your profile.
- Discuss important topics gradually and specifically.
- Compare words with actual agreements.
A place to start
Choose a relevant example and adapt it to your situation. Do not assume someone has interests they have not mentioned.
I'm dating with a family in mind, but I want to get to know someone gradually. How do you feel about that approach?
When you think about living together, what matters most to you in an ordinary weekday?
Prepare your own version
Move from a goal to specific expectations: Choose one step and write down how you would like to suggest it.
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What else is useful to know
When should we discuss children?
When there is enough trust in the conversation and the subject affects your plans. Listen to the person's actual position rather than expecting to change it through pressure.
What is available in GuessWish?
GuessWish offers ways to meet people through visual choices, have conversations and chat with AI. These are separate formats. Check the interface for available features, terms and the prices of individual actions.
Can you guarantee a connection or a reply?
No. Interest, replies and willingness to meet depend on the other person. The examples on this page help you start a conversation but do not promise an outcome.
